Absolutely! I never hang out one on one with guy friends. It's what I call "bad relationship karma" but there are true reasons, so many scenarios that could make it go wrong. Avoiding emotional intimacy with a person of the opposite sex who likes you should seem obvious but it's easy not to do b/c that situation is flattering. Yeah, I won't touch those situations with a 10 foot pole even if all intentions are good because I refuse to jeopardize what I have. I'm with you 100%.