Re: thoughts on fidelity & relationship stuff
Awww, so cute that you're so into this guy!!! :-) Isn't it funny; it's like the puppy love sends fermones and all the men in the vicinity pick up on it. Not that having the cute men checking you out isn't good for the ego, anyway! Just the other day the cute YOUNG guy at the checkout of the grocery store was giving me flirty eyes... nice brown ones. Ah, while my hubby is away, I do 'appreciate' the looks of the cuties. I dunno why, it helps a little, amuses me if nothing else and hell, eye candy can't hurt! ;-)
I won't launch into a long thing of my history but it sounds like we would have a blast sitting down to coffee and telling the tales of our love lives. 8^)
You know what? In spite of folks who don't believe people can be faithful, the ability to be and the ability to give love to a person that is all for them is good for the heart of the person doing the giving, and is part of what is needed for true intimacy, IMHO. So go you, no matter what happens, even when the man is bad, you know that you loved well and were true to you and one day a man may come along who deserves it... 'sall good, it's good for your heart no matter what. *happies*
I really like talking about this stuff when my hubby is away. Talking about relationships gets me all mushy about him. *siiiigh*