I must respectfully disagreee with you. I have a lot of experience in this area of inner healing and deliverance and, while it may "appear" harsh to you, the law is there for our benefit.
There is nothing more loving and wonderful to see people set free! I have expelled demons of curse from people practicing in the things you recommend and espouse from New Age, etc. I wish that I could "download" my experiences into your being since words are inadequate to express the totality of the experiences.
I have to run an errand, but will revisit this. But I believe that you have an erroneous concept of the OT/NT teachings. The NT is clear regarding what love really is....to obey His commands. When we do this, we really do love one another!