I thank you on behalf of your son.
When our boy was 12, he asked why he was ’different’ than other boys, so we told him, and offered the surgery now, if he wanted it.
Immediately, he said, ”No, thanks.”
I don’t know how we’d have handled it, if he had said yes.
At the very least, we knew how much the question bothered him - not very much at that point.
As for family members, when he was born, I don’t remember anyone objecting. If they had, I suppose we’d have just smiled.
Our son was adopted at age 10 days, and he already had a lump on one side of the top of his skull ...
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