actually if youve been in the military then you'd know that this is actually a good idea. joining the military changed a lot of things for me. it made me less of a bitch and more accepting of people. the military changes your outlook and it really feels like it gave me a fresh start, even though i wasnt looking for one. i genuinely cared about people after joining the military. the only thing i have to say is join the marines, not the air force. that is of course, if you can handle it :P