Re: Relationship advice with Trust

Hello and thank you for your advice. I moved out and left this man and it caused him to see that our marriage was in a crisis. He went (and continues to go) for counselling and his counsellor let him know that he has a sex addition. He has been working at getting help and starting to go to a support group. I moved back in as I can see he really wants to change his bad behaviour.

I'm not prudish but I don't feel my 'camming' with other men or with him would benefit our relationship. Personally, I believe it will feed his addiction. So, we are taking the necessary steps to a healthy relationship. Does this mean I trust him? Hell no. I will be more aware and reading up on sexual addictions. Overall I love this man and want him to be healthy and I want to work together with him to achieve this. Will it be easy? I'm sure it won't but I'm willing to try - for better or worse. Tweet