Re: Relationship advice with Trust

I wouldn't rate his webcam relationship as "p 0 r nography", more cyber sex, which I think is much more damaging to a relationship (with big question being if it was with a willing adult looking for a partner or if it was through some p 0 r n service).

While on the subject of p 0 r nography, while it can be an addiction, and content of it is often horribly ugly, I don't think it is always and necessarily damaging or sign of a deeper issue - depending on the content of course, as so many different things are considered "p 0 r n". It could be that here I am confusing erotic with p 0 r nographic, but the line between the two is rather thin...

In any case, I'd make a distinction between active participation in some sexual contact even if over the net, and passive viewing of images or films with sexual content; the first I would rate as a definite "no-no" for someone who is involved in a relationship, while the second can be quite benign. Tweet