Re: Relationship advice with Trust

First I will say that I do not wish to be in your situation. I can only imagine how you feel. But lets not imagine how you feel for just one minute. You did say that you still have a healthy sex life with your husband. So in other words you are still getting what you want sexually. Right? Your husband is in fact giving you what you want? Okay now lets imagine how he feels...you are not giving him what he wants. Why don't you get a laptop and a cam and go in the other room..trust me, its not about who he is doing it with, it's about what he is doing. We all have our preferences whether we admit it or not. While your gasping at my words..have you ever done this? Do you know if you'll enjoy it? Then give it a try..might just save your marriage and give you the time of your life! Please don't think I'm being rude or mean or unsensative to your feelings. I'm just being real. What if he forced you to eat vanilla ice cream all the time..wouldn't you be tempted to eat chocolate..sometimes? As awful as this may sound, when I turned 18 the advise my mother told me regarding men was "if you ain't gonna do it someone else will" and that applies to everything! Tweet