Re: Relationship advice with Trust

I'm so sorry that your husband is putting you through this. Just know that it is not your fault. He has made these choices and, though he thought you would never find out, has completely disregarded you as a human being and has shown complete disrespect. He has lied and lied. There really is no way you can trust him again. His behavior is totally cheating, if it wasn't you wouldn't not feel so hurt and betrayed. It is also perverted as far as I'm concerned, and shows a total lack of self-worth.

You say you love him, but it takes two people to make a committed relationship! He has repeatedly gone against that trust! No, you never will trust him again, and I'm so sorry to say, but chances are that, yes, he will betray you again - whether you find out about it or not.

I know it hurts.. I've been there, but it is not your fault at all. We can't control what others do, and if they decide to act in a way that's hurtful, the only thing we can do is NOT tolerate it.

Good luck, what happens now IS totally up to you.

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