over anal sex ? Lordy, it isn't that big of a deal. Be clean, use lots of lube, go slow, and gently chew on the base of her neck when you're all the way in. Women tell me that a good anal orgasm can be the most intense total body rush they ever had. If some of the gasping gutteral vocal moans I've heard are any indication, they do not exagerate. By the way, Freud believed that intense disgust was a conscious response to a strong unconscious desire for the very thing that one finds so disgusting. Not that he was right, but he might be, don't you think?