yeah, sorta true. But careful about buying into the either/or idea of True Love on one hand and Hollow Sex on the other. It never was that simple. Some people actually do have better sexual skills than other people, exactly as there are some people with better social skills than other people. Those with higher emotional intelligence have been show to succeed in many aspects of life better than those with low emotional intelligence. People with higher levels of sexual intelligence are more likely to have happy, loving, fulfilled relationships than people with low sexual intelligence. As long as you define sexual ability as a fixed condition that you were born with, you are locked into the same self limiting beliefs that the person who deosn't believe in education. The fact is that education won't guarantee anything, but is sure as heck will improve your odds. There are many aspects to having good sex, how to create an appealing setting, how to have a good conversation, how to be sensitive enough to know when she's really feeling it and when she's only going through the motions and thesame for him. Unfortunately, a lot of people are a lot less sexually educated than the assume themselves to be. What a shame !