Its like the old saying goes, you are what you eat. If you eat lots of living foods than your body will be alive, and if you eat dead foods and chemicals than your hair starts to fall out and you cant get it up (among a huge list of other problems). As for not being offended, its quite obvious that you and your husband are both quite happy together, and I doubt the two of you have many problems. Its not too late to change your diet and many of the problems you mentioned as being a natural part of the aging process can still be reversed.