Gosh Andib I wish you were my wife! I'm 36 yr old male and I feel like my sex drive is in overdrive! My wife and I have been married for 5 years and I'm lucky if we have sex once a week! I agree kids and life will take a toll on a marriage and a relationship... However, sex can cure alot of problems too! Good luck, I hope things work out with your boyfriend. I hope things work out with my wife! I know how it feels when your sex drive is in overdrive!