There is not much I would miss. Each of the recent 3 times I have been there it was self and self alone. The ones I love most were not there in body, yet I knew that they were all aspects of self and joined with me.
I have been there so I KNOW you can have no attachments. The moment attachment arises you are whisked away. For you cannot seem to exist with attachment of any sort whether to children, spouse or body. Once I drop my last few attachments I'm outta here. Obviously holding for a reason.