I am sorry that sometimes the language is not that clear, because it refers to things Erik and I have already talked of, and also because channelling comes out often like this, a bit criptic in some parts, even to myself. It is funny, when I say and write those words they make perfectly sense to me, but then the understanding vanishes partially, like in dreams.
Personally, I particularly enjoyed the passage where he says that those who don't want to pass are here to get the memory that will take them out of the loop of incaranetions, in time. They gather a seed that will grow life after life, in their own pace, until when they are ready they will locate their incarnation next to the gate. It is wonderful to know that if you don't pass, that doesn't mean that everything is lost, that you'll have to spend other 26,000 years growing carrots before you get next train. And from this explanation I got more the feel of what it means that this side is "in time" and the other is "in no time". It is like time is really a zone where you go back and forth as you need.