I have not been around for several months because I am having trouble with my old man. We have been together over 11 years.
My ol man is in jail. Abuse of a family member. (Me) I need to go ER to get it all documented in medical terms for court and do not have the strength to do it. This happened this afternoon. Later, I called his Mom to tell her what happened....another mess...make long story short, his brother left me a message if I do not call him tonight he is going to come over here from the other island on a plane tomorrow. He said he is coming for me. He said to not mess around with him. (Writers note: edited from the word make to made, 6:51 AM Tuesday,March 7th.) Made a police report of that and signed a statement. The police listened to the message that my old man's brother left me on my Cell Phone saying all that. The family is huge and there are plenty of them on this island also. I will NOT be run out of own house. I am not scared at all. I am plenty pissed off and in pain also. I need an x ray on my foot. I have blood in my urine and passed blood in BM, bright red this morning. He slammed me against the wall several days ago. My head and back hit the wall. He stomped my foot. He had grabbed my arms and left bruises. My blood pressure is sky high. I have had two strokes already. My old man is a Viet Nam Veteran. I love him dearly. We both started counseling. I went the next week alone and he went last week alone. Some physical ailment is causing this and damnit, he believes in western medicine and I have been here to long to trust them.
All suggestions appreciated. Please help me.
PS Update : Same times a editing was done
I have decided to hell with the whole thing. I am going to take some advice I was offered by a friend, who suggested that I follow my heart. I have a hell of a mess to clean up here at the house because when my old mans brother said all that to me on my voice message I took it as it was said and figured he would do exactly what he said. Little did I know that they all talk a lot and do nothing except say it and do not follow through with it. That is a good thing for him because I was ready willing and able to defend any attack. When some one says they are coming for me, I prepare. Now I have a mess to clean up. I had decided after that phone message that I was DONE with my ol man because I do NOT WANT any part of a man who has a brother that would say some shit like that. All I want from that brother is to be left alone and not called or contacted in any way. I was going to file a TRO against my ol man, however it looks like I should have filed one against my ol man's brother. I still can do that if need be. Once again, all I want is to be left alone.