Rainy, I am not mad at you at all. So have no worries over that.
I will disagree with you that this girl is poor and confused. To me she sounds like she is enjoying her relationship with Jesus with more clarity and excitement without all that hoopla getting in the way.
Jesus is all we need! Seek after all this other stuff, as she said she was doing, and you will be lead away from Jesus, and that is what is happening to so many.
It's very telling when all these churches that obsess over all the spiritual gifts, are the ones that are so messed up as you say. Show me one that is obsessing over the spiritual gifts that is a true church.