The main thing is the each of us has different chemical balance. They constantly wonder what the reason is that more women have migraines than men, because of hormones. The female hormones are greatly underestimated.
I've had horrible migraines for 12 years, my only daughter is also 12 and long story short tried a lot and been to a lot of doctors. Its only recently that I've made the connection between the hormones and the migraines. For you it probably put your hormones over the top with the progesterone. For me I've actually recently got the IUD because I've had the same symptoms you've mention in great detail enough to consider disability. I got the IUD to try and help kill off my cycle. If it doesn't work I'll move onto an endocrinologist as I've figured out I most likely have PMDD and may just need to have them pull everything out. I don't think you can sue them for this IUD. There are warnings and there is no way for them to know your chemical balance and how the IUD would have worked with that. It just sucks to have ovaries basically.