Maybe you are picking at the gnats and don't see the bigger picture? There are lots of variables and our genetic makeup is only one of those variables. There is nature & nurture. We are very much afflicted and affected by our genetic makeup and likewise we are also physically and emotionally changed by our environment, diet, everything that enters though our pores, eyes, ears and mouth, and every thought or action we take or inaction we do not take. We can become twisted by any or all of these variables but denying that they are there, does not make nature and nurture go away. If the world or your genetic makeup has twisted you into something full of hate then I can forgive that but magnanimity is the higher road. The same set of everything may lead two different people to two completely different paths. I hope you find your way back to a path of love and compassion †