Mira, I'm trying hard not to reply to you in an attempt to not make this forum all about us. If you would like to argue with me, I would think it would be courteous and respectful to do it 'off' the forum. You can simply send me a private message.
Something tells me that isnt what your intent is though. Its almost as if you're being instructed as to what to write, and how to write it. Do you have a favorite mentor here?