Re: Was it rape?
Oh my goodness what is wrong with you people???
"Hard to say if it was rape or not."
"Don't drink so much next time."
"It was a stupid drunk moment."
There is nothing ambiguous here people! She said stop, she said it hurts, she said no, she CRIED IN TO HER PILLOW and he kept going.
It was rape!!!!
You poor girl. I would say this amounts to something wrong in his development. Either he needs to admit he raped you and get therapy or you should break up with him because there will be a pattern.
I felt sick to the stomach reading your account; I have been raped and it reminded me a lot of that.
Don't listen to these pea brained people, it's not your fault for being drunk, it doesn't matter that you initially consented, you shouldn't have to modify your drinking to ensure it doesn't happen again.
I wish you all the best, be kind to yourself and start the healing process...