Karen - it's all good. Most of us are here to support you on your mission. Get past the first 72 hours and all should be calmer in your world.
Don't worry about your grammar - we all make mistakes.
I simply pointed out to someone who was trying to slam me the correct spelling of the word they were trying to use to insult me and I got slammed for that too! Here I was just trying to help someone properly insult me and I get thrown over the coals for it! LOL!