Re: i almost became a mistress... what do i do?

Understand this: if he's cheating on his wife, he will cheat on you, eventually. Marriage is a LEGAL, BINDING CONTRACT that can only be dissolved by a Family Court Judge - for any man (or, woman) to opt risking a long-term, expensive legal battle over a piece of *ss is just plain stupid.

"but i still like him."

Please. You like what he might have represented in your fantasy. Now that you know that he's a lying, cheating thing, it's YOUR decision as to whether or not you will debase yourself, demoralize yourself, turn your back on your own morals/ethics, and engage in the most hopeless and abusive situations that a woman can find herself in: mistress, OTHER woman, homewrecker, etc. For this guy, there will ALWAYS be another woman and don't think, for a second, that you'll be immune to the heartbreak that his wife will be experiencing.

If it were me (and, it WAS, once upon a time), I would tell him that I'm not even flattered by his attention and that I have more important things to attend to than being a part of his deception. I would walk away and never have anything to do with him, again. And, I had to do that, many years ago. Yeah, it was a shame, but I couldn't imagine being a part of something that would harm his wife and child. No, THANK you.

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