I really didn't think of myself as a judge. But you are correct in every single point you made. It was none of my business to express what I thought was concern to you. I reacted out of my own memory of being trapped in a situation I thought I would never be able to leave. I was feeling my feelings through your posts and getting into your business. That is reprehensible and wrong for me to do, I should not put myself into your shoes. What I did was obviously very damaging.
I apologize and will not repeat the mistake again.