Re: What to expect?

Me again, dear.

I know that many, many will look at my situation and think I am nuts but maybe they haven't considered a very major aspect--staying alive. And each situation is DIFFERENT. They are!

You cannot tell a Chinese woman who is bound to stay in her house on the 2nd floor walking on broken bones day in and day out till her feet become "beautiful" in that culture "Run! And take your children." It is idiotic to the max. HER circumstances make it to where she doesn't know anything different. Even SHE thinks her little 3 1/2 inch feet are beautiful. Talk about "gettin' twisted"?!

So, YOUR SAFEY concerns me. Alot of people can say what they want to because they do not understand that LEAVING IS WHAT GETS MANY WOMEN AND GIRLFRIENDS KILLED.

My case is different. MY batterer is very concerned about IMAGE as is the case with many NPDs. You will learn an ENORMOUS amount by researching this pattern online. So stay safe above all else. Especially around a meth freak. Don't LEAVE him until you can do so without him EVER finding you. Don't agree to talk to him in public or private FOR ANY REASON. Don't give him "a second chance". "Oh, let's just 'talk'" .... a meth freak? I would be so gone so fast.

Mine is "a pillar of the community". I honestly don't know which is worse. Mine gets away with all his lies and it makes it all the more unbearable for me. The neat thing in my case is that mine screamed at me so much, so loud, so long that he developed Bell's Palsy. Did God strike him? I dunno.

All I know is that FOR HIS SAKE he is much more toned down. I don't think NPDs ever really change. So just stay safe,dear. That is my concern for YOU. Tweet