Hi! Well that's exactly what happened and trust,depend,rely...got me knowhere! I became so dependant on him that I don't even know how to get around town (to a certain extent) ...I guess it's my own fault for not sticking up for myself all these years and beleiving him when he said that he will take care of us for the rest of our lives. He is a very controlling man, things always had to be his way and so I always let it not to cause any waves, now I find myself stuck in ways that I could never imagine. I think this will be a very long road to discovery, to new beginings, to new opportunities, to new love, to be stronger for self than ever before. It will be challenging especially with the kids ...