Re: More unsolicited advice...

Molly!
Yes the relationship has sucked ! we are both aware that we need to stop sabotaging eachother in it ! HONESTY is the only thing that will get us thru this, if eigther of us start thinking OTHERWISE ...it won't work. Along with some Hope it's all I have!
Thanks for sharing your story with me, I realize that I'm not the only women in the world that this has happened to. It's just so painful, I know that with time the pain goes away and that people do move forward...in every which way.
I actually thanked him for bringing us to this point in our lives , I told him that I was proud of him because I never had the guts to do it...Part of why I always wanted threatened to leave was because I needed it to stop...the hurt that is. We became two different people with eachother, people that we didn't want to be and we both realized that , we need to find ourselves.... Like he said we need to talk and we have done enough figting and leaving to last a life time....


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