WOW, you don't sound like a fun date. Any guy that goes out with you better watch his P's and Q's (and none of that macho TAKE CHARGE kind of stuff either). I feel fortunate that I never had a girlfriend with so many demands and a sensitive nose, maybe they were always focusing on (the wrong thing?) LOVE. I make a point of never saying "YES, DEAR" lest I someday hear the complaint "I wish you would act more like a man". If you made the choice NOT to "beat your man into submission" and pick out all his faults, you'll never have that complaint. In the meantime, please don't scare us into thinking that all women are like you.