Re: Need advice? You sure do !

Your family is going to mess up your whole life (continuously haunt every single aspect of your life until the day you die)if you CONTINUE to let them. You've grown up letting them kick you around and mistreat you. You think it's normal to let your family control your life and mistreat you. You have an inferiority complex. You think you should be mistreated and threatened by your family
(well, I don't agree with you). Think about this...you're 27 years old,living apart from your family, and they're still trying to control you and dictate who you should have a relationship with. Frankly, you'd be better off without your family, I know that sounds harsh,and of course, being a decent person, you don't want to just ignore them completely for the rest of your life, but pretty soon, you are going to notice that they are making your life so intolerable that you are starting to avoid them, something that THEY have caused. When they are old and lonely, they might regret not having a better relationship with their son and I think you might share their feelings. So, take charge of the situation or some angels are gonna come down from heaven and kick your butt. Tweet