Hi mr sad, can't stay on long. First of all, FAMILY is a dangerous thing to have in a relationship. Unless they are smart and mind their own business, their tendency is to mess up every part of your life possible (some kind of jealousy thing, they miss not being in control of your life after you no longer live with them). Your mother is not putting you in a simply UNFAIR situation, she is threatening to DISOWN you (FAMILY TREASON), no matter how she wants to explain and justify her actions and feelings. I'm 48, and have dealt with my familiy's games all my life because I didn't tell them off years ago. Your mother action's, feelings and words are not those of a loving family member, especially those of the person whose body you came out of, sorry to say, but her words are those of a traitor (low life scroundrel), and whether she is speaking truth or not, even the threat is something no family member should do. I'll get back to you later.