Re: What Would You Do In This Situation?

Well, I thought this too, and asked her repeatedly. She says no, she just recently met him and will not say otherwise. It seems to me that she really has no reason to lie to me anymore since the cat's out of the bag.

I just turned 30, and she'll be 31 in September, and we'd been togther for a quarter of our lives. I just don't understand how she can just jump into another relationship that quickly after being with me for so long. It really hurts me that she has no love for me anymore, and I did nothing but love her, albeit my not holding a job made things hard, but that was all I ever did wrong. I just don't feel like that is something that can't be worked out, but apparently she does.

What a waste of time and energy, and my 20's. Now I feel old, boring, and with nothing to offer anyone. I don't have the energy to expend on getting another girlfriend, and don't think I could do as well as her. She's gorgeous, i'm very unhappy with my looks, and I feel like I have nothing to offer anyone. She wins and I lose, and there is nothing anyone can say to make me see things differently, so I don't even know why I am posting at all. Sorry for the depressing post. I have nothing else to say, I guess. Tweet