Re: Is it wrong to be needy?

Nah... thank you for the input,though.
It would be different if the phone calls where all the time, and at odd hours or with the desire of catching her doing something that she should not be.
No, the phone calls in question, where planned (by me ofcourse) around times when she said that she would be at home, and placed with a desire to talk to the woman that I love, nothing more.
I suppose if I had thought she were cheating, that would be different. But having been cheated on, I kind of have this "feeling" that warns me of "alter-activities." This girl is not like that. She is sweet, incocent, caring, sensitive, and whats funny... just as needy as I am. The difference is that she fights with hers, and I don't. I have spoken with her in the past couple weeks. Just casual conversation. I am trying something new.... friends... LoL
I have to admit it is different. I don't talk to her about dating or things of that nature... we just chat.

No, I hate rules. If I had my way, anarchy would be the way of the world. It would be an anarchy based on love and a LACK of NEED for rules, and not lawlessness, but while I am dreaming....
So control is not something that is needy. Needy means wanting to be with that person as much as possible. Spending time with them, hearing their ideas, listening to their life's stories, bringing them gifts and them bringing you gifts. The gifts could be as simple as a post-it hidden in a pants pocket. Needy is the word used to describe someone who desires... thats me...

Thank you again for your input.

Once more, I am with Alikat on this one. I have just not found the one that I am looking for. She is out there though.... I dream of her... and I know that she is somewhere dreaming of me...

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