Re: Is it wrong to be needy?

In my opinion, i don't find that to be abusive at all. however, i don't think it's realistic of you to expect her to call every time she leaves the house just in case you happen to call while she's out. i DO think that if you had PLANS, and she blew them off without telling you she was doing something else, then that was HER bad and she's just being defensive. i know how i am...i like it when a guy gives me space...i'm not cheating or doing bad things, i just enjoy "girl-time". you sound like a nice person who has alot to offer a girl, but in your next relationship, you may want to take things slower and not involve your daughter AT ALL until you know it's something solid. it's not fair to her that she suffers in the break-up too. just my two cents. good luck! Tweet