Forgive me Amanda, what you say sounds nice enough, but the problem I see with it is that if you have two people that are basically so at odds in their definitions of what's intrusive, then having to find ways to tippy toe around the situation still leaves the greater problem unsolved.
Yes I know, there's always going to be things to work out in a relationship, but this one seems to be a major one as it can spill and snowball into lots of other areas. I still believe it's a much safer zone when the two people see things the same way and communicating each other's whereabouts,etc. is the joy of shared experiences, not a bondage. But then, that's just me. ;-]