I replied to you earlier, said a lot more but my post was deleted, dangnabbit!
I just hope you don't let these people hurt you anymore.
Sometimes being "nice" and "considerate" to others is a veiled form of being mean and sabotaging yourself, internalizing and participating in the abuse towards yourself. Agreeing with the people who hurt you doesn't reduce the conflict, only superficially, temporarily does it seem that way.
Do try to get out of that situation.
Remember, you've suffered. Now you deserve a wonderful person, not anything like your stupid family.
P.S. now that you're legal, maybe we can... get together sometime?