No one was bent out of shape, simply requesting an answer to a question
The orignal issue was the fact that you claim there is not such thing as Too much calcium. And I disagree with that. You yourself admitted that there can be a " imbalance" of the two minerals. That was truly the original question. In addtion I had an issue with the recommendation of taking calcium hydroxide alone.
Those were the issues. Only later did I ask you why you felt you suggestions were better than what I was taking, but that really was not the existing issue. And if you think you detected an attitude on my part, it is solely due to your delivery whihc is not always tactful ...as your wife proclaims.