Now I do understand you have differing views on here but don't pull that card it's the oldest trick in the book to accuse someone of, to say she is a friend so I have to take her part is an insult to me. I know her to well and know she is trying to help you. If she was in the wrong I would tell her so and she knows it, but how can I when she is trying to save your soul, that is what this is all about. By the way I have had words with her before on this forum concerning Tomi but we rise above it and I certainly would not call her responses to me attacking me, that is not what this is all about at all and I think you know it. She would do the same for me and everyone. If you don't want to listen to her that is up to you.. your future is in your hands.. As Derek Prince said if they don't want to listen then leave them alone... so I shall move on if it is all the same to you as we both have better things to do than to keep disagreeing I am sure...