Then simply put you refuse to obey God's expressed will at 1st Corinthians 5:1-11). Jehovah God has given us that loving law. If you don't like it, you have to take it up with Him....So what you are saying you will only obey certain things in the Bible and not all of it? How sad and unfortunate for you if this is the case with you....Disfellowshipping will always be a loving provision for the true christian congregation of true servants.