I know you don't want me to talk, and believe me, I will stay out of the the fray. But yall are making it a contest, and you are as stubborn as she is so maybe you find it fun I guess. But nobody will ever come up ahead here. You have to find some things you do agree about. That will start the healing. You guys I guess can just say well we are on the debate forum so its all okay. Well you lie to your friends and Ill lie to mine but don't lie to me. You 2 either love each other and cant say so, hmmm watch this video or something. I promise I will stay out of it like you asked. I get we kind of sort of made up. But this stuff is hard for me not to chime in on but I won't except this post.
Mainly yall got to act like 2 people who can find a little common ground some place and go from there. It isn't hard, really. Maybe because I am not used to debating here as we use it more as support than the other one, I am off base. But still, even in debate, at some point you need to be a friend first and a debater last. I know you guys have more in common than you think. I know you both and I am confident you both understand me. Just try saying something nice to her and her back. Geeze you are more difficult than enemies. And I know you are not enemies. If you guys are like kids on the playground where this is how you get to be together then, okay but other lost souls are reading it.
What you seem like..
What you probably are (posted this already but seemed fitting) promise I will just watch after this, just hope you will find that common ground...Love you both..