Ahhh, there you go again, with the freewill stuff. You refuse to stop don't you. I do believe man has freewill to choose God. I have said over and over that God does not stop anyone that desires to come to him. Why do you think I witness to people also? Why do you think I'm here on these christian forums?
And you are wrong to think other people don't fear an ever-torturing hell for their loved ones, no matter what they believe. Haven't you ever heard of a momma crying over her child in jail even though he committed the crime to be there. And jail is paradise compared to an ever-torturing hell. Don't imagine that you know the minds and thoughts of people all throughout the world. This false teaching does effect people more than you could know.