Much like marriage, many people these days try a marriage on for size by living with each other for a while and then if by some chance one doesn't like the fact their spouse asks of them to embrace her/him with everything they are...denying the world and all the falseness in it....and then the other just walks away, thinking that is asking too much...even though it was known from the beginning that the spouse had asked of this from you. That my friend is not commitment. Never was from the beginning.
No harm done they may say. Playing the part of marriage, yet not fully committed to it. God even stated that it is fornication to play the role of marriage without the commitment.
Now on this matter of this link to one of my posts and your response. My understanding was that you were expressing your dislike of some christian dogma and preferred to be referred to "CHRIST-ian", instead of being called a christian because you did not want to be associated with the whole organized religion package. If you notice, I gave no reply. I knew you had issue with it.
However, others of us who are not afraid to use the term "christian" or "christianity", and don't think that it has to do with organized religion can not word everything to accommodate you in every post and situation. Those words apparently mean something totally different to us than to you.
My post that you responded to was a general post. A statement you may find in any christian post, blog, church service.....anywhere. Matter of fact, I came away thinking you agreed with it and thanked me for it.