You state: "Do you honestly believe that believing in God makes one a "Christian"?"
No it doesn't. Muslims are not christian....Jews are not christian. They do not believe that Jesus died for our sins and was raised from the dead and ascended into heaven. What you believe and don't believe makes all the difference in the world. If you feel like that is hooking you into some lifestyle/belief system that is uncomfortable, then take it to the Lord in prayer.
I believe Jesus is God. Period! That changes everything.
I believe Rainy is a wonderful example of a christian and she is a blessing to us all. However, I'm not Rainy. So your comparison shopping for christians are a waste of time with me. I may not be a perfect christian but I know what He calls me to do....and no, I'm not meant to be soft and pliable in your hands. For you very well may need a thorn poking any lying spirit from time to time in order to bring out the truth.
Whether or not you become a christian has nothing to do with me. You and your relationship with God are the one's that matters. All the gates of hell will not stop a person who is truly seeking God from finding the truth. So stop all your blaming of others and ask the One that can help you find truth. I wish you all the best in your journey.
Like Rainy said...we do love you and care about you.