people want to cheat for making a living so the heart is not as one shows to other to believe. love is shown as deception for it is not in the heart so illusion is just forced art that we accept as value.but not real Love and one can see it easily if not blind himself too. if the heart says yes and mouth honestly says yes then one can move right forward, and so vice versa- hearing and feeling the Love as the truth. this takes time to become conscious from the unconscious joyful toleration of life but all this known to God and from there one will start to move and have action manefesting into what he wants. know yourself. not so many there are in this world that way.