Ok, I called RAINN, and yes, they were very very helpful. They gave me a number to call that would have advice on my question.
RAINN is confidential and secure, but the number they told me to call, I could of swore, I heard a click as if my call was being recorded.
This particular referral, (that was NOT RAINN) was more interested, I think, in REPORTING, and catching rapists, which I applaud. But I had to take a step back, since doing so meant more involvement from me. Well, of course it does. You cant put anyone behind bars with out evidence.
District Attornies, they need evidence.
We are working out the details with concern for privacy, etc.