I know when my mother told me, confiding in me, that there had been a VERY different energy between mine and my brother's conception that it made it very obvious why there were such huge energetic differences between my brother and myself. I guess you already had those conversations with yourself about divine intention and having chosen your mother, your puzzle, etc.
Grace is incredibly fortunate to have a father so well rounded and versed in the myriad of human consciousness. She is and will continue to be one of the most fortified 'women' on the planet for your knowledge, without a doubt. As am I.