Everyone has to do their own thing. I am Muslim and there is absolutely no sex, no dating and no men. I am speaking from years of experience before my new life which has lasted for 15 years. My husband dead for 7 now and I have stayed alone. I have no regrets.
So years ago this is how most felt. What you do blues is up to you as I am not judgemental in anyway. A women should be cherished for who she is but I am sorry don't think things have changed that much.
I think the reason the sex thing has died down since the 70 and 80's is the Aides scared and it is rightly so. Only a foolish woman would go unprotected and not think long and hard about finding a single partner.