may i be cynical?

if the man wants to have a relationship with you, it doesn't matter when you decide to have sex with him, he will still want to have a relationship with you

if he doesn't want to be in a relationship with you, you can postpone having sex with him for years and he will still dump you for a piece of fresh meat as soon as you've given him what he wanted, which was to simply have sex with you

you have to be very clear with men up front that you would like to be in a relationship and hope they have enough integrity to control themselves and refrain from lying and saying they do too in order to get into your pants

you've probably got a fifty fifty shot
so if you enjoy sex it might be worth the risk to find out if he's any good at it
chances are he won't be and you will weed him out anyway

hold out for a marriage license and you might get stuck with somebody who is a lousy lover, so be sure to get a prenuptial agreement signed first, or you'll lose half your assets when it's over









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