Well put. But this is too much two sided stories here. The man can sleep with thousands of women and he is considered macho. The woman is she does the same is considered loose. So some men with their demented minds, think if a woman sleeps on the first date, that she does that with everyone.
So find someone who cherishes you and appreciates you enough to call for the second date is my opinion. Morally and religiously I feel that the man who really cares will wait. The man looking for a one night stand will not.