Re: Are you a Victim, a Hero, or a Bad Guy?

I am hoping my friend that it helps others or I would not respond. Some are very judgmental so I do not respond to their post but with you, I honestly feel you are genuine.

I was a victim in a sort of way, as she abused me horrible but I never felt a victim as I eliminated the threat and became victorious, get my drift. Was there a bad guy, well no, she is a good person and many love her and many don't but she is not bad. There will always be good and bad people we don't get along with. That doesn't mean she isn't good in many ways. I pray for her everyday and ask Allah to heal her. I use to be upset but not anymore. I guess the thread help me to realize that I am in charge of my destiny and I choose not to be a looser and listen to negative talk or be with negative people. I choose to be me, whether that is good or bad. Sometimes we just need to talk, not that we want advice just talk. YOu know what I am saying.

Heroes are many and not just on this thread. Many have been heroes to me and still are. Those who help the sick in Gaza, those who supported me in my wellness and my forum, those who support me in Jordan, many. Heroes are special. Corey maintains a joke forum and he is good. Trap is good too although harsh with me I understand his soul. V is good, I forgive him. Yeah I know you don't want my forgiveness. Grz is my Angel warrior and Telluride,lol, you are one crazy dude. Heroes and friends are like neck bands you need them but now and then they get too tight.

God bless you and sure I consider you my friend, numbers are impersonable, be yourself and don't give a hoot who knows it.

SARA