there are very few exceptions to the rule. there is always how they chose to respond to those things. there are plenty of stories of those who have triumphed over terrible odds. if we were not capable of dealing with this reality, we wouldnt be here.

There's judgment and there's taking notice - two different things. A lot of paradigms believe our lessons come to us by way of balance. It's a different idea than karma in many ways. We experience that which we have condemned by way of finding a deeper understanding for others. Certainly Christ experienced that, yes? Another thought is that we, as powerful beings, agree to transmute lessons and experiences for others, and we are 'tried' in our compassion and duty to God when it happens. Will we forgive our perpetrator? Will we be grateful for how their lesson changed us?

good
But even those, the very special souls have chosen
In fact they may say engage those souls from lives past that they themselves were the oppressor

Its a long end game ` wink `

Well each to their own interpretation. Was I being attacked or ganged up on, same thing. Were there people who were trying to read my mind or were there honest people trying to help. When you look at the whole thread decide for yourself. What may mean attack may be a means of help in their own mind. But what would of helped me more if someone had said, Sara I understand what you are saying but I think this is what I would of done. Other than the majority telling me I was the route of my own problem. It was my choice not to devulge the details as it is personal but I knew what was toxic and what was not.

Friendship means backing you up in good or bad and Corey was chosen as a hero as was Grz and Peggyaus. She criticized me many times but did it in a constructive manner. Heroes come in all shapes. Was I the victim, no of course not. I never felt like a victim ever. I felt like the one the majority does not like for prior reasons not for this scenario. When we have a group at curezone we should all be as one and support each other not try to judge them for what they have no knowledge of.

I chose to post under your thread because you stated of the recent post but does not mean your whole post was about me. This is your ideal or interpretation. A person who lives their lives based on what others want is useless. It is only when you stand up for who you are and not let others influence your decisions are you really free. I want to reiterate that we must be kind to people but not make decisions based on the majority of people in fear they will reject me.

I know you mean well but it comes over like you are trying to psyco analayze the situation or me, ha. I am not the norm and never will be. But good try.

spend a little more time with each other.